Creative and Personal
In your wedding, I ensure that each of you feels well represented.
The special values that each of you most cherishes can be expressed through poetry, readings and songs.
Your core beliefs will be reflected in my words to you.
The weddings I perform are personal, intimate, and suffused with a gentle humor.
Each wedding ceremony, while using many of the traditional elements of a Jewish ceremony,
is unique to the couple that comes to me.
When you hire a cantor as your wedding officiant, you get two for one: someone who can provide music
as well as perform the rituals that you choose for your perfect ceremony.
I can set your favorite poem to music and perform it at any appropriate time between or during the rituals.
You may choose to use Hebrew during your wedding ceremony or have it performed entirely in English.
If you find that some of the traditional religious formulations don't really speak to your hearts,
I can offer you contemporary forms of blessings that might conform better to your modern-day beliefs.
For instance, the blessing over wine could be the traditional
בּוֹרֵא פְּרִי הַגָּפֶן
"Borey pri hagafen", or
"We give thanks to the source of life for creating the fruit of the vine," or
"We bless this celebration with the fruit of the vine."